Monday, September 28th, 2009 at
10:31 pm
Looking to improve your Dining Room with Feng Shui? Here are some tips on giving your dining room a feng shui makeover!
- A mirror will be a wonderful feature in the dining room. It doubles the food on the table symbolically.
- The head of the family should have a seat which has a high back and arm rest. He should beat the head of the table.
- The head of the family should have his back on a solid wall and must not sit where his back is towards a door specially when open will drain his health and deplete the wealth luck of the family.
- If the dining room and kitchen share one space, a mirror must not be installed especially if it will reflect the fire of the stove. The doubling of fire in the reflection will produce a double yang energy which can put your house in danger of fire or your health may be affected. Hang pictures of ripe fruit and place a bowl of fruit on the dining table to symbolize bounty.
- Never keep the rice bin empty. Also keep the refrigerator well stocked.
- The best sector in the house is to have the dining room on the southeast, east or southwest.
- Avoid having the toilet door open to a dining room specially the dining table. If this exists, cover the toilet door with a rod curtain or put a divider to separate it from the dining room.
- A dining room should never be too close to the main entrance because the auspicious energy tends to dissipate fast or “go out soon”.
- Dining rooms should not have overhead exposed beams.
- A poison arrow or pointed corners protruding from an adjacent room or big cabinets pointing directly to the dining table will affect the health and wealth luck of the family.
- Cover this pointed corner with a tall plant or hang a small red pineapple lantern or a string of beads or shells at the ceiling where the sharp angle is, to cover the “poison arrow”.
- If a toilet is directly above the dining table, move it away to avoid depressing the auspicious energy.
- If a staircase leads to the dining table, move the dining table away or the downward flow of energy coming from the stairs may push away the “food luck”.
- Avoid using an overhead ceiling fan over a dining table. It affects the stability of auspicious energy in the dining room.
- Dining room level should be the same or a little higher than the living room.
- Paint the dining room with happy and bright but not loud colors.
- Avoid using religious images as decors in the dining room. These items should be in a quiet and respectable space in the house.
Saturday, September 19th, 2009 at
10:47 pm
How is everyone? Here’s part 2 of Feng Shui Tips for Love. Hope you have a good love life!
- Marriage, romance and family’s happiness and relationship will be accepted if the southwest sector of your home or particularly your bedroom is afflicted.
- Place a big crystal or boulder if the southwest corner is missing. A missing southwest corner and family relationships may lack depth.
- Do not allow a mirror to reflect a door, a staircase, a toilet or a kitchen. It must reflect auspicious objects. When earth objects are reflected, love luck is enhanced.
- A southwest wall painted with bright red will create precious yang energy. Yellow and white can also do the same.
- A bright red lampshade is a good alternative to the chandelier in the southwest. Write or draw auspicious designs on the shade and keep the lights on for at least 3 hours each night.
- A faceted crystal ball of about 1- 2 inches in diameter can be hung on a southwest window to capture sunlight that can be converted to multi-colored chi energy.
- Place a bowl of water filled, and crystals, glass beads or semi-precious stones and floating candles on the southwest sector. Use 3 candles, never put 2 or 4 candles. They symbolize death or mourning.
- Do not over-energize the love sector or you might create an imbalance. Remember that Feng Shui is all about the right balance of yin and yang. Just one or two tips that are appealing to you and implement them.
- To get the correct location of the southwest sector, stand in the center of the house, room or the lot. And use a good compass, take a careful bearing.
- Have a good balance of the yang and yin with paintings, color schemes and decors. By not being excessive in the use of either masculine or feminine. This way, not only romance luck but also wealth luck will grow.
- Paint living and dining room with bright happy colors and the bedroom with restful, relaxing hues.
- Use a mystic knot to create continuous romance or love and harmonious relationship by sticking the red mystic knot onto pictures of you and your loved one or your family portrait.
- Red roses are good materials in bringing romance but when you send some, remove first the thorns so as not to “harm” relationships.
- Give 3, 5 or 7 flowers. These are the numbers of romance. Never send 2 or 4, because these are the numbers of death. Numbers 8, 10, 12 are for wealth luck and congratulatory wishes.
- Yellow flowers encourage romance, because yellow is the representative color of the earth. It is also the color of youth.
- Do not send white flowers. White has yin energy and is only given as offerings for the elder, and to God.
- A pair of Mandarin ducks made of ceramic, porcelain or crystal placed in the southwest sector of the bedroom will enhance romance in marriage. If you are single, this enhancer will help create love attraction.
- Crystal, jasper or porcelain are ideal materials for Mandarin ducks. But if your personalized love or romance sector according to your Kua Chart is east or southeast, colorful wooden ducks will be just as good.
- Mandarin ducks should be displayed in pair always. A single duck will signify loneliness, separation or celibacy for life.
- If your love partner avoids or is elusive of commitment place a big picture or painting of a pair of flying geese which symbolize eternal love and marriage destiny and happiness.
- If you are single and alone in your home, you may benefit from symbols of strong earth energy obtained from displaying beautiful rocks, crystals or a painting or a picture of mountains in the living room, this creates the chi of family luck.
- A sculpture with stone base stimulates earth energy and placing one made of marble or clay by the door will invite earth or love energy into your house.
- Women who wish to get a husband must use decors with yin energy. Do not overdo the energizing.
- Maintain a good balance of yin and yang energies by using equal amount of symbols for each like moon and sun; light and dark; black and white, cool and warm.
- Never place a water feature on the right side of the door (inside looking out) or on the south sector of the living room.
- Do not put aquariums, fountains, gold fish bowls, even paintings of waterscapes. They should never be placed inside the bedroom or they will cause loss of love, interest and coldness. They will cause sickness to the occupant.
- Water in the main entrance, whether inside or out of the house will cause the male of a couple to have his love interest change or wander, and thus play around, and get entangled in extra relationship.
- Swimming pool beside a bedroom on the southwest of a property can “drown” a relationship. It can cause loneliness or even separation.
- Keep cactus and thorny plants away from the southwest, the negative impact on your love life may be heightened.
- Never give your loved ones gifts that are prickly, pointed, sharp, and have cutting edge, such as letter openers, knives, etc. They cause severance of romance.
- Install a bright globe light 5 feet above the ground in your garden preferably in the southwest sector to draw the vital earth energy that activates romance.
- If your kitchen is in the southwest sector of your house, your love luck is suppressed. But if your stove is in the southwest sector of that kitchen, the bad effect is nullified because the fire strengthens the earth energy.
- Peony symbolizes happy love life and invites marriage luck to single men and women if they hang this in their bedroom especially in the southwest.
- If all children of the family are married, remove peony and all other love symbols and enhancement from the bedroom or the southwest sector of the house or the father of the family may become involved with a younger woman other than his wife.
- Do not put fresh, dried or artificial flowers in the bedroom of a married couple or either of them may look for extra-marital affair.
- Do not place a mirror in the bedroom especially if it reflects the bed. It can cause infidelity and extra-marital affairs, even sickness and separation.
- Two single mattresses placed on a double bed frame signify separation because this creates an invisible barrier. A married couple should not sleep on this.
- The married couple should sleep on a double bed with a double mattress or two single beds placed side by side. Beds facing different directions will not affect or harm the Feng Shui.
- Exposed overhead beams affect the couple sleeping under them. If the beam cuts the bodies horizontally, their love life and health will be affected. If vertically, the cut will cause separation.
- Couples should not sleep with their feet pointed towards the door. This simulates the “death” position either one may lose the “other”. Move the bed away or change its position to avoid the door.
- Heart-shaped crystals, specially pink or red placed under the pillow or inside a velvet pouch and placed on the night table in a bedroom will enhance the relationship of a married couple.
- Energize the crystal by bathing it in sunlight for 3 hours for 7 consecutive days. Morning sun is the best.
- To magnify the love chi or the heart-shaped crystal, place it under the light of the full moon.
- During engagement or marriage, wear a double happiness ring for conjugal bliss. This is a potent symbol in Feng Shui you can wear. This can also be worn as a pendant for both couple.
- You can decorate your bedroom with the double happiness symbol on a curtain, bed sheet, furniture, etc. but remember not to overdo it because you should always maintain good balance in Feng Shui.sss
- The double happiness symbol will be more meaningful if combined with the energy of light. Have it painted on a red lamp-shade to brighten up your marriage.
- The eight mansion formula will help you find out your personal love sector. Through your birth year and gender (in Kua Chart).
- Your kua number is based on the calendar of the Chinese. If you were born before February 4 of a year, you belong to the previous year of the Gregorian calendar.
- Add the last two digits of your birth year. Keep on doing this until you have just a single digit as the result. For males, deduct the resulting number from 10 and for females, add 5 to the resulting number and again keep on adding the two digits until you just have one as a result.
- For those born in the year 2000, deduct from 9 for males and add 6 for females.
- If your kua number is 1 - your love direction is south; if 2 - northeast; 3 - southeast; 4 - east; 5 - (male northwest) (female west); 6 - southwest; 7 - northeast; 8 - west; 9 - north.
- Use your own kua romance direction to energize love luck. Say your wishes, aspirations and prayers for love or meditate towards this direction.
- If you are talking to or dating the one you love, face towards your love direction.
Wednesday, May 13th, 2009 at
2:16 pm
One must have the right combination of luck to have a well-balanced, auspicious and healthy life. These are the heaven luck, the earth luck and the man luck. For man to obtain his life’s objective, he should work hard. This is called man luck. Together with this, he needs the support of other people around him. He then must have the right place or setting to have his talent in the right venue. The heaven luck comes in the form of the right timing for his goals to realize. Read the rest of this entry
Saturday, April 18th, 2009 at
10:45 am
The opening of the New Year holds many uncertainties and doubts for many people all over the world. These uncertainties make one so insecure that he will try to hold or depend on anything, even superstitions to allay his fears or assure him that everything will be alright. He keeps charms and talisman, sees fortune-tellers and reads horoscopes to get assurance of good fortune. Even the garden is not spared from superstitious beliefs. Read the rest of this entry
Wednesday, February 25th, 2009 at
12:58 pm

Photo by Colby Otero
A brightly lit chandelier hung in the center of your home brings excellent feng shui. The feng shui chart indicates 2009 is a double earth ox year, so crystal chandeliers symbolize these 2 harmonizing elements. This is also a year when the quarrelsome star flies into the northeast of the home or any building. The best remedy to suppress and exhaust this negative star is to put Ksitigarbha’s fireball or Manjushri’s flaming sword in the northeast and employ fire energy. Hung in the center of the home, a brightly lit crystal chandelier becomes a fashionable decorative piece with a difference. It will also enhance the elements of the year while at the same time lessening tensions and disharmony.
Chandeliers make wonderful effect in lighting which works well, if not better than harsh halogens and designer lights. Chandeliers are the jewels glittering on your ceilings and walls, lighting the living room in the home with the fire energy associated with recognition luck and a great amount of yang energy.
The energy of chandeliers comes from lights shining on beautiful crystals. If you can’t afford these, at least invest in little balls of cut crystals that you can hang around the home. These crystal drops are very strong in suppressing hostile energy that afflicts the center of all homes. Hang them by your windows as well so they catch the sunlight, which provides natural fire energy.
The best kinds of chandeliers are circular and look like mandalas. Do not get chandeliers whose crystal points look threatening. They must look like the sun or moon, and not appear like they will fall on you.
Before chandeliers were seen only in the grand ballrooms of palaces, hotels and country homes. Today they are available in all sizes at very affordable prices. So they are no longer for the rich but something of their previous associations still clings on.
In feng shui, chandeliers always bring good energy because they suggest wealth and prosperity. To have them in homes has little or no bad effect, but do not overdo the effect of chandeliers. Go for warm bulbs rather than white light. Make your chandeliers warm rather than cold. Let their light embrace you, not hurt your eyes. In feng shui, one needs to be embraced by energy, not hit by it. When lights become so bright; that they dazzle your eyes and cause you to squint in their glare, or give you an uncomfortable feeling, their good effects transform into something bad. Too much of anything is always harmful.
Tuesday, February 17th, 2009 at
2:50 pm
When moving into a new home or having one built on a piece of land, consider some external Feng Shui factors that may affect the occupant’s health and safety, auspiciousness, career and relationships. These factors may also prevent progress or growth of the businesses in a building. Consider the following guidelines in Feng Shui that may affect the Good Ch’i of an establishment.
1. A T- or Y- shaped road fronting an establishment or house is bad.
2. A house located at the dead end of a road is unfavorable.
3. A house at the bottom part of a cul-de-sac or cutting-edge side of a u-shaped road poses danger and inauspiciousness to the occupants.
4. A house should not be built in front or anywhere around a cemetery, funeral parlor, a church that accepts funeral services or wakes; temples, hospitals, slaughterhouse, police station.
5. Business establishment must not be built on a land that used to be a cemetery or any place where death, sickness, pain, fear and trauma used to be constantly experienced. Read the rest of this entry
Monday, February 16th, 2009 at
1:11 pm
Year 2009 for many people seems to have many uncertainties in business because of crises and misfortunes in the economy of the past two years. Here are some tips to invite positive vibration:
- If you are just starting a business, clear the place of clutter (accumulated useless things), then ring a bell to create positive Ch’i energy. Light an incense or red candle and place it on the south sector and put a small dish or bowl of sea salt anywhere to cleanse the air and purify it.
- Place three ancient coins tied with red string on the inner side of the main door particularly on a door knob.
- Hang a six-rod metal chime above the door where the chime will produce a “sweet” ringing sound as clients go in and out.
- You may also hang 3 small bells on the same place where you hung the three coins.
- Under your welcome mat at the main door, sew or glue on three ancient coins tied with red string.
- Place a pair of Fu Dogs at each site of the main door at eye-level or higher. The Fu Dogs should face each other. The male holding a ball on its left foot should be at the right side of the door and the female with a baby Fu Dog under its right foot at the left side. Ceramic is the best material since the Fu Dogs are guardians of the earth. These will guard the home or business against evil doers and deceivers. They deter killing energies.
- Southeast is the best sector to place the money box or drawer. This is the sector of wealth and abundance. On that sector, place a laughing Buddha.
- The south is the sector of fame, popularity aspiration and acceptance by others. Display a galloping horse or a horse standing on its hind legs to energize popularity and acceptance in business. Red flowers or Phoenix can also enhance this sector. Make a wealth ship by filling a model galleon or banca with coins, trinkets, crystal beads and paper money to symbolize abundance in wealth. Place this also in the south at a little above eye level.
- Position a blue rhinoceros at the east of the room to counter the bad effect of the violence and robbery star that hovers above the said sector this year. An image or figure of an elephant with raised trunk will also be an effective preventer of violence and robbery. The blue rhino can be positioned facing the main door of the office or home to prevent people with bad intention from entering.
- To prevent misfortunes and accidents (which are the bad effects of the 5 yellow misfortune star), place a 5 element pagoda, one of the best Feng Shui enhancers, on the north sector of the office or living room.
- The main door of a store or office should open inwards not out to allow the Yang (positive) energy from outside to flow in and circulate in the store.
- The goat is the conflict animal of the ox who reigns in 2009. If you were born in 1943, ‘55, ‘67, ‘79, ‘91 and you have a business, place an image of a rabbit and a boar on the south-southwest sector of your office or table and an image of a striding or horse on its hind legs to defeat the bad vibes that may occur to you. The rabbit and boar are goat’s allied friends and the horse is his secret friend.
- Place 9 pieces of three legged frogs sitting on coins and biting a coin all over the office or store. They should be below but not touching the floor and must be hidden from sight. These images will attract business luck.
Monday, January 26th, 2009 at
11:55 am
Welcome 2009!
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People tend to be obsessed with all kinds of activities in bringing auspiciousness in everything in life. In Feng Shui, one’s luck, life, love and wealth could be enhanced, suggested, changed, architectured, depending on many factors and practices.
In the midst of all of life’s problems, dissolutions, I can offer answers and solutions. Though in Feng Shui it is not the heaven and the earth or any “magical” practices that are important, the outcomes and results are drawn too by our actions and efforts. How well we do in our endeavors, in business, love, home or family depends on how we continue to seek out knowledge; learning through books and experiences; feasible changes; and advices from experts.
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